I did not watch the Oscars but on faceboook I saw an acceptance speech by Matthew McConaughey and it was rather meaningful and beautiful. It was not just a regular speech like the same old acceptance speeches you hear. The 3 goals he strives for everyday go as followed. 1. What do I look up to? 2. What do I look forward to? 3. Who do I chase? As I am watching this video I am thinking to myself going now these are good prompts to think about each day, to strive to become better. So I have put some thought into it and I am going to answer these 3 questions myself.
Who Do I Look Up To?
When I think of things that I look up to there comes a short list. My family for one. My family always has my back,in good times and in bad. My family is my support system and without family I would be alone. My boyfriend who is also very important to me, I look up to him. Like my family he won’t let me give up either and wants to see me succeed as well. I look to him when I need something when I am struggling and I can’t go to anybody else. I love him. I look up to my head nurses who help me become a better aide. I look up to them and my coworkers to help me accomplish new challenges at work. I look up to certain people I admire in the music world and hollywood scene because sometimes they understand what I thought nobody else did in my darkest times. And if I ever meet any of them, I want to thank them for that one day. But Most Importantly I want to thank everyone who has entered my life and for being here for me and a role model to me and giving me a reason to look up to them as someone to help me in my path of life.
What Do I Look Forward To?
Being only 20 there is a lot of life I have to look forward to. Right now there are many things I have been dreaming about. I will start with I am looking forward to the day when my boyfriend gets down on one knee and asks me to be his wife. I dream about that almost nightly. But I feel like that is any girls dream for that matter. Secondly I look forward to one day getting out of my house and into an apartment with my boyfriend. I look forward to decorating for every holiday and cooking marvelous dinners once I learn to cook. Ha Ha. I look forward to my wedding day and honeymoon, and starting a family. But daily things I look forward to are my “Good morning beautiful” text messages. Morning cuddles with my dog. Coffee with my mom in the mornings. I look forward to coming home after work and talking to Nick on the phone until I fall asleep. Coming home to a comfy bed after a long night at work. I look forward to family time and dinners. I have many things in life to look forward too.
Who Do I Chase?
This was one of my favorite parts of Matthew McConaughey’s speech. He was asked by someone who was his hero. He said his hero was himself in 10 years and that is the person he chases. I really like that aspect and vision. Given this some thought I feel that I don’t know who I am chasing but I am going after a big goal. I am starting school in the fall. SO I am figuring out that I will be chasing after myself to do well. To study hard and strive for B’s or better. Im starting school to start my pre recs to apply for the Nursing Program. After being at my current job for 7 months, I realized I want to go for my RN. I am chasing my dream and I am not going to stop until I make it. It might take me a while to get there but I am promising myself that I will not stop. First step is to get an Associates Degree in Science and then I will be able to apply for the Nursing Program. Everyday I am going to tell myself that I can do this. Slowly but surely I am going to make it one class at a time.